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"A household based in the northern part of London seeks an extraordinary and skilled instructor to guide their most junior child on his early path to turning into an English gentleman."

When reading this listing, you might readily skip the wording "initial stages" as simple a turn of phrase.

Yet, it might be the crucial part of this distinctive job advert, as it attempts to find a teacher for a infant.

Many of submissions have already been submitted since the unidentified family posted their request for the £180,000 per year tutor, who needs to be "a uniquely qualified person".

During the past few weeks, the listing has received notice in the news, with numerous asking why?

Forward-Thinking Method

The CEO, CEO and founder of an education consultancy, which is helping the family in their quest, stated that despite early doubt, he found the plan "far sighted", and "advanced".

When he spoke with the family, he said they recognized the unusual aspect of their requirement, and how early in age their son is.

Nevertheless, they stated that they "preferred not to postpone any longer" to get a tutor, as they had postponed until their firstborn was five, and by that stage "cultural influence had already taken hold".

What exactly does the family mean by "cultural bias"?

It's "comprehensive", Adam replied. "How you eat, how you speak".

He explained the firstborn had absorbed "very nuanced, body language" from the family, and had taken on their cultural norms. The family informed him they wished to avoid the same situation to recur with their new baby.

The plan: To engage a UK tutor, who must speak with RP, to influence the baby from day one.

Natural Absorption

"A great deal of the education at the outset here is somewhat acquired indirectly," explained the CEO.

It's through this subtle influence that the family are hoping the child will acquire the British traits they aim to cultivate.

He said the tutor must be somebody who attended "the right kinds of schools – comparable categories of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The educator just has to be the suitable individual, they'll be performing things they may not realize they're doing, simply by nature," he said.

Cost Not Relevant

The family explained to the expert the selected educator should preferably also have understanding of or enthusiasm in horse riding, alpine skiing, artistic pursuits and instrumental training so as to shape the child in a broad spectrum of passions.

Additionally though, he said the family wanted the tutor to enrol the child on a range of lessons so the child would be "pony-riding and learning an tool by the time they are approximately three years old".

In the family's perspective, assisting their son develop into a "British gentleman" will result in achievement and open doors.

"For all the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's undoubtedly a status symbol," he comments.

However, despite all this tutelage in "English culture", would the child pick up so-called cultural leaning from the globally influenced family he resides with in any case?

"Certainly", answered the CEO. "They realize this might not succeed, but they've merely embraced the attitude of, 'we should try and we should start as soon as we can', because the price of it is not relevant," he explained.

Impractical

There are some in the private teaching field who have similar concerns.

Another CEO, chief executive of a tutoring service, who supplies individual instructors, wrote that "the process of becoming bicultural, or indeed, becoming oneself, is something that must be lived into, not designed."

The expert explained that he had moved from the Far East to the UK at the time of 7 years old, and had been raised knowing and practicing dual heritages. He continued to learn at the University of Cambridge.

"The concept that a single person can serve as a living vessel of English culture, a person who can possibly transfer the qualities of a British gentleman onto a one-year-old child, strikes me as optimistic and impractical," he commented.

"Based on my background, having a typically English tutor from babyhood will will not instantly achieve the goal they want.

"I did not have such a tutor, and however I have been privileged enough to enjoy many of the opportunities they hope for their son."

He continued: "The fact is, cultural identity cannot be forced from the outside; it must be selected, and it must come from within."

Buying Britishness

Of course, Britishness is something Adam hopes can be educated – and sold.

"I believe the situation that the international society regards us in this regard is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating